{"id":2785,"date":"2026-09-24T18:45:01","date_gmt":"2026-09-24T15:45:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/?p=2785"},"modified":"2026-09-25T14:54:34","modified_gmt":"2026-09-25T11:54:34","slug":"copilului-ii-este-frica-de-dentist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/children\/the-child-is-afraid-of-the-dentist\/","title":{"rendered":"The child is afraid of the dentist. How do you prepare him or her for the first visit?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2787 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1402\" height=\"1122\" srcset=\"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist.png 1402w, https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist-300x240.png 300w, https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist-1024x819.png 1024w, https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist-768x615.png 768w, https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/copii_05_copilului_ii_este_frica_de_dentist-15x12.png 15w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1402px) 100vw, 1402px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a child is afraid of the dentist, it is not recommended to scare them, threaten them, or promise them that \u201enothing will happen.\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A better approach is to simply explain to them that the dentist will check their teeth and let them gradually get used to the dental office.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For anxious children, an initial orientation visit can be very helpful.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why are children afraid of the dentist?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear can have many sources.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The child can:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">not knowing what's coming;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to have had an unpleasant medical experience;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to have heard negative stories from adults;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to be frightened by noises or instruments;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be sensitive to unfamiliar people and places;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to associate the dentist with pain.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes adults unintentionally make a child's anxiety worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Phrases such as \u201eit doesn\u2019t hurt,\u201d \u201eyou don\u2019t need a shot,\u201d or \u201eif you don\u2019t brush your teeth, we\u2019ll take you to the dentist\u201d can turn the dentist\u2019s office into a place the child feels they should be afraid of.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What should you tell them before their first visit?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Keep the explanation simple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You could say that we go to the dentist so the dentist can check to see if our teeth are healthy and clean.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There's no need to explain in detail procedures that he might not even carry out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid descriptions of:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">needles;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">blood;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pain;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unpleasant personal experiences;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">difficult extractions.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children may interpret this information differently than adults.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Don't tell them, \u201eIt won't hurt at all.\u201d<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may seem reassuring, but it introduces the idea of pain even before the visit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore, the parent cannot predict exactly what treatment will be necessary.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A simple, neutral message is more appropriate: \u201eThe doctor will look at your teeth and explain what he\u2019s doing.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That way, the child isn't given a promise that might be hard to keep.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What is an orientation session?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An orientation session allows the child to enter the office without the pressure of a complicated procedure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depending on the child, they may:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the doctor knows;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">see the office;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sit in a chair;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">discover some of the instruments;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">understands what is happening in a way appropriate for their age;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">learn how a consultation is conducted.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The goal is to build trust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SmileCity offers an orientation\/introductory session for children, currently priced at 60 lei.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What should I do if my child won't open his or her mouth?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is not helpful to turn the consultation into a confrontation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A child's behavior depends on their age, temperament, past experiences, and the reason for the visit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The doctor can use various methods of communication and accommodation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the techniques used in pediatric dentistry is the \u201etell, show, then do\u201d approach, in which the child is given an explanation of what is about to happen in terms they can understand, is shown what will happen, and only then does the procedure continue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depending on the child, it can also be helpful to divert their attention, offer encouragement, and reinforce positive behaviors.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Is it better for the parent to stay in the office?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no single rule that applies to all children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some children, a parent's presence provides a sense of security.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For others, communicating with their doctor may be easier when their attention isn't divided.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The decision is tailored to the child, their age, and how they react.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What mistakes should you avoid before your visit?<\/b><\/h2>\n<h3><b>Using the dentist as a threat<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201eIf you keep eating candy, I\u2019ll take you to get your tooth pulled.\u201d This kind of message creates exactly the association we want to avoid.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Sharing Negative Experiences<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your child doesn't need to know before the appointment just how much pain you experienced from a tooth extraction 20 years ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Rewards Disguised as Bribes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201eIf you don\u2019t cry, I\u2019ll buy you a toy.\u201d The underlying message can be: \u201eSomething very bad is about to happen, and you need to be rewarded to get through it.\u201d It\u2019s better to offer encouragement in response to positive behaviors.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Visit only when you experience pain<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a child's first visit to the dentist involves severe pain, it automatically becomes more difficult for the child to adjust.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>When should children start going to the dentist?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There's no need to wait until you develop a cavity or experience pain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Preventive visits allow children to become familiar with the environment in a calm setting and give the dentist the opportunity to monitor the development of their teeth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can make future visits much easier.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Pediatric Dentist in Sector 6<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At SmileCity, children can come for both introductory visits and consultations, as well as for cavity treatments, fillings, baby tooth extractions, professional teeth cleaning, and sealants.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The clinic is located at 158 Ghencea Boulevard, Sector 6, Bucharest, and is easily accessible from Ghencea, Drumul Taberei, and Prelungirea Ghencea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your little one is afraid of the dentist, you can mention this when you make the appointment so that the first visit can be tailored to his or her needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>How do you choose the right time of day for your appointment?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For young children, the time of the appointment can greatly affect their cooperation. A visit when the child is well-rested and has eaten properly is usually easier than one at the end of a long day, when the child is tired or irritable. For many children, morning appointments work best. However, parents know their child\u2019s routine best and can choose a time when the child is typically calmer.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What can a parent do during the consultation?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most helpful role is to convey a sense of calm and let the doctor lead the interaction. If several people are offering explanations, asking questions, and giving instructions all at once, the child may feel overwhelmed. Sometimes it\u2019s enough for a parent to simply be present and calmly reassure the child that it\u2019s okay to cooperate. If the doctor recommends a specific communication approach, consistency between the adult and the medical team is helpful.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What if the first session doesn't go perfectly?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A difficult visit doesn\u2019t mean a child \u201ecan\u2019t be treated by a dentist.\u201d Sometimes the first appointment is meant to assess the level of anxiety and help the child become familiar with the environment. If it\u2019s not an emergency, treatment can be broken down into smaller steps. The long-term goal is for the child to be able to return without increasing fear, not to complete as many procedures as possible in a single day at any cost.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dac\u0103 unui copil \u00eei este fric\u0103 de dentist, nu este recomandat s\u0103 \u00eel speriem, s\u0103 \u00eel amenin\u021b\u0103m sau s\u0103 \u00eei [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":2787,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-copii"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2785"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2785\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2788,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2785\/revisions\/2788"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/smilecity.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}